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Tag: “pressure”

My partner and I are both HIV-positive, can we have a baby?

My partner and I were tested in 2005 and both of us are HIV-positive. Now I really need to have a child because I’m feeling pressure from my in-laws to have a child.

I have had two miscarriages so far and I want to know if it’s possible for me to be pregnant?

I’ve watch 3Talk on December 1 (World Aids Day) and they were talking about huge amounts of money it takes to have a child, and I cannot afford it. Does this mean some of us who are HIV-positive and can’t afford to pay for the right treatments can’t have kids? Please advise me if there’s anything that can help my situation.

When can my boyfriend and I stop using condoms?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months. He wants to stop using condoms. We haven’t gotten tested together yet, but he says he got tested this year and he is negative. I know that I am negative. What must I do? I don’t want to lose him?

How can discrimination kill?

I heard once that Madiba said that stigma and discrimination “kills”. What did he mean by that?

My girlfriend won’t go all the way, what should I do?

My girlfriend doesn’t want to ‘go all the way’ with me although we have been in a relationship for six months. I respect her feelings and wouldn’t like to view her as a sex object, but I find it frustrating because sometimes she even refuses just to cuddle. We sleep together but do not engage in sex. What should I do?

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